I’ve always loved the light and shadows in this photo :) (photo by GeekySpirit)

I’ve always loved the light and shadows in this photo :) (photo by GeekySpirit)

Anonymous asked
Did you experience cramps or bleeding post T? Im over two years on T and within the past few days have started to get cramps, as well as slight blood when wiping. (Sorry if this is graphic) My doctor is no expert when it comes to transmen, but im planning on making an appointment if this continues. Im worried it could be the bad effects of T interfering with female oragns.

Hello there,

First off, I want to clarify that I am not a doctor! I didn’t experience this, however I know that it is something that some guys do run into (called “spotting” I think). I urge you to talk to your doctor about it ASAP and if they are clueless then they will need to consult with or refer you to someone who is knowledgable in transhealth.

Anonymous asked
I'm a girl who likes girls, wearing guy clothes, cosplaying as guys, basically I like to feel like a guy. But I also like feeling and acting like a girl. I sorta want to be a guy but also a girl. Like my brain wants to be a gender depending in the day if that makes sense. I'm told its weird and I'm just wondering if you had this sorta thought or felt you were always a guy.


Gender fluidity is a thing. It’s a gender identity. There’s not just boy or girl out there, there’s a whole spectrum of gender identities and there’s nothing stopping anyone from switching their gender every day. 

I really urge you to take a look at the term “genderfluid” (might be two words “gender fluid”). It might answer a lot of your queries :)

In terms of myself I have always felt male, even while trying to persuade myself into identifying as female. But you and I are different people with different gender identities. Neither is more “valid” than the other :) You’re not weird and what you’re feeling isn’t weird! It may be a little less common than other gender identities, but less common doesn’t mean “weird” or “false” at all.

epicmuttonchops asked
your TMNT Leonardo looks so much like Darryl Dixon (Walking Dead)

Really?? I personally don’t see it but oddly that’s not the first time I’ve been told that. I’ll take it as a compliment! :3