November 2010
Anonymous asked: Greetings, I'm a fellow supporter over here in Australia and I have been following your deviantart for almost a year. I read your transgender announcement and I really liked the fact that you are happy and confident in yourself, and I think that it will inspire alot of people out there who feels pressured by stereotypes. Lately, a question has been around in my head for a while and I wanted...
annemaru-deactivated20110103 asked: Hi Lucas,
This is going to be a really long question (/description) but I'm quite confused and I feel like your answer really could help me.
You see, I feel like I have two different "me":s, I have a girl-me (btw I'm biologically a girl) and a boy-me. I have short hair and my face is actually very androgyne-looking. I'm sort of split in half, I feel...
This is going to be a really long question (/description) but I'm quite confused and I feel like your answer really could help me.
You see, I feel like I have two different "me":s, I have a girl-me (btw I'm biologically a girl) and a boy-me. I have short hair and my face is actually very androgyne-looking. I'm sort of split in half, I feel...
kankreep asked: How did you know Nova was 'The One'?
Anonymous asked: Hi Lucas,
I noticed that you're giving out really great advice all the time, so I figured I should go ahead and ask for some myself.
I'm a girl, and I feel right as a girl. I wouldn't want to change that. but, I feel comfortable, and almost happy, when I bind my chest or wear boy's clothes. (especially binding.) I dress in "girl" clothes on a normal...
I noticed that you're giving out really great advice all the time, so I figured I should go ahead and ask for some myself.
I'm a girl, and I feel right as a girl. I wouldn't want to change that. but, I feel comfortable, and almost happy, when I bind my chest or wear boy's clothes. (especially binding.) I dress in "girl" clothes on a normal...
Anonymous asked: What´s the meaning of Twinfools? How did it arise? Is Kai a japonese name and why did you choose Lucas too? Did Kai come from some Anime? Sorry for so many questions about your "names" but i got really curious, i liked them!
Ah! You were very handsome at Aki Con!!
(Sorry for the English!) You're amazing!!!
Ah! You were very handsome at Aki Con!!
(Sorry for the English!) You're amazing!!!
Anonymous asked: Dear Twin, I am a girl who used to identify as bisexual, before I met my wonderful boyfriend. The issue I'm having is that he often worries that I will suddenly announce that I am gay or that seeing as I have the capacity to 'love anyone' I will stop finding him attractive because there's better looking men and women in the world than him. I was wondering if you could give me...
babyspanner-deactivated20110714 asked: Questions flow in from day to day this I know, but I have a question I'd like to ask you Twin.
Throughout my life I've been striving to find who I really am. With each passing day I can feel that I'm getting closer and closer. I find myself watching various FTM videos and feeling empty inside. A big part of me wants this change so that I can finally live my life...
Throughout my life I've been striving to find who I really am. With each passing day I can feel that I'm getting closer and closer. I find myself watching various FTM videos and feeling empty inside. A big part of me wants this change so that I can finally live my life...
Anonymous asked: Hello, Twinfools. ^^ First off, I want to say that I really admire what you've done with your life and think that you're an incredible inspiration. Something I've been wondering, though, out of curiosity, is, how do you feel about all of these people who write to you asking for advice on their gender identity? Do you feel put upon? Because I think it's incredibly kind of you to...
zemexx asked: In the United States we have new screening proceedures at airports that require us to go through what is basically a full body imager, giving a TSA (Transportation Security Agency) screening staff member a practically naked photo of us. As a transgendered male, I am worried that if I present myself as male during the screenings and when they see that my body is actually female, that I will fail...
linathezeldanerd asked: Hey Kai :D
I'm only 16 and I've been thinking about my sexuality a lot lately. I like girls, but I still have feelings for guys. My mom says it's just a phase. Do you think she's right?
I'm only 16 and I've been thinking about my sexuality a lot lately. I like girls, but I still have feelings for guys. My mom says it's just a phase. Do you think she's right?
My cat is getting fat. In fact both of them are. And I know exactly why too. At this moment they are both staring intently at me… well, not me, my dinner.
fruityneko asked: Hey! ^^
So just out of curiosity, did you officially change your name to Lucas or Kai? Which name do you prefer to be called? I was just wondering because your tumblr is the first place I had seen people call you Lucas rather than Kai.
So just out of curiosity, did you officially change your name to Lucas or Kai? Which name do you prefer to be called? I was just wondering because your tumblr is the first place I had seen people call you Lucas rather than Kai.
I feel like I’ve become my own twin brother. It’s very surreal. I still feel like myself, but those old insecurities are fading, and those are a big part of what used to define me. I know that I’m free now. I know and feel like I’ve become a better person both personally and socially. But I also know that there is a every growing disconnect between who I was and who I am....
Anonymous asked: Hey twin.
I'm a 15 year old female but I am very open minded and all that.
I have no idea what sex I am into but that doesn't worry me at my age, the only thing that does is about that I might consider becoming male. My mum and dad a very open minded my mum use to room with a gay guy. Anyways it's not them that i'm worried about coming out to it's my peers....
I'm a 15 year old female but I am very open minded and all that.
I have no idea what sex I am into but that doesn't worry me at my age, the only thing that does is about that I might consider becoming male. My mum and dad a very open minded my mum use to room with a gay guy. Anyways it's not them that i'm worried about coming out to it's my peers....
Anonymous asked: Why does Sora from KH have to have such complicated hair? Dx Its such a pain in the a**!!!!!
Yours
AStrugglingCosplayer
Yours
AStrugglingCosplayer
Anonymous asked: Hey, really not trying to be rude, but I am trying to understand something. Why you care so much about your exterior? Are you doing this because you want people to treat you differently or because you just want to look/feel different? Either way, reasons for this sort of transition seem kind of selfish. I guess life is short, so you have to live how you want, and i guess that any pursuit can...
Anonymous asked: Heya Twin~
Sorry if this has been asked before (and if it is an odd question) but have you noiced any changes regarding the size\shape of your hands and feet?
A good mate of mine has been on T for a month now and he has really noticed a change in both of his and he was just wondering if its a fairly common thing~
Cheers bud~!
Ally, From Ireland~
Sorry if this has been asked before (and if it is an odd question) but have you noiced any changes regarding the size\shape of your hands and feet?
A good mate of mine has been on T for a month now and he has really noticed a change in both of his and he was just wondering if its a fairly common thing~
Cheers bud~!
Ally, From Ireland~
It’s snowing on campus! Snow! Now I can start blasting my Christmas tunes without feeling grossly out-of-season!
Anonymous asked: Hey, hear me sister to sister!
What did you do, it's never too late to make it right! Don't marry a girl; you think your happy believe me its temporary, Life doesn't worth; people who support you they don't love you enough to stop you to make you see! I don't hate you and I won't all am say are you can be happy with the way you live!? But is that what you...
What did you do, it's never too late to make it right! Don't marry a girl; you think your happy believe me its temporary, Life doesn't worth; people who support you they don't love you enough to stop you to make you see! I don't hate you and I won't all am say are you can be happy with the way you live!? But is that what you...
midoriueki asked: What's your cultural background? :)
BTW (Im sorry that I'll sound like a stalker ==") You are one of my first cosplay idols that inspire me to cosplay. If you remember the girl you talked to at the first day of AE at the pre-registered line. I was cosplaying as Mashiro Kuna from Bleach, to be more specific, I had my shinigami cloak and my green wig, that's me! I...
BTW (Im sorry that I'll sound like a stalker ==") You are one of my first cosplay idols that inspire me to cosplay. If you remember the girl you talked to at the first day of AE at the pre-registered line. I was cosplaying as Mashiro Kuna from Bleach, to be more specific, I had my shinigami cloak and my green wig, that's me! I...
Anonymous asked: How did you get away with walking around a convention accompanied by a giant penis?!
Anonymous asked: Hey Kai
You have mentioned quite a lot about how you take gender studies...I am from the UK and have no idea what they are could you
explain please?
You have mentioned quite a lot about how you take gender studies...I am from the UK and have no idea what they are could you
explain please?
bigscitycalidreams asked: Any advice to a girl whos asking a girl out for the first time?
Anonymous asked: What is the most exciting vacation you've ever been on, and what did you do? :)
Anonymous asked: Kai,
I'm so glad to hear you had fun at Aki Con!
In your journal, you mentioned that the border was no trouble for you to get through. I myself am a transguy planning on going to AE 2011 and was worried about the border myself, since my legal name hasn't been changed yet for financial reasons. Have you ever had problems crossing borders between the States and Canada, or do...
I'm so glad to hear you had fun at Aki Con!
In your journal, you mentioned that the border was no trouble for you to get through. I myself am a transguy planning on going to AE 2011 and was worried about the border myself, since my legal name hasn't been changed yet for financial reasons. Have you ever had problems crossing borders between the States and Canada, or do...
raptorjaci-deactivated20111107 asked: I just saw the new Harry Potter video. HOLY SHIT MAN! You got fucking ripped!
kalonkatelyn asked: 'Allo.
I don't know if this has already been broached on your blog-thing here, so if it has, sorry.
I have a friend who is obviously on Testosterone, and obviously has been for quite some time (if the dramatic change is voice register/ body shape/ facial hair/ etc is anything to go by). My friend knows I'm a total supporter of the LGBTQ community, and...
I don't know if this has already been broached on your blog-thing here, so if it has, sorry.
I have a friend who is obviously on Testosterone, and obviously has been for quite some time (if the dramatic change is voice register/ body shape/ facial hair/ etc is anything to go by). My friend knows I'm a total supporter of the LGBTQ community, and...
theunknowperson-deactivated2011 asked: Hey Twin
How are you!
I wish you can help me
I'm female, but i like to dress male clothes.My Mother say ''Really, you don't like a girl.'' Sometimes i look for others girls, and i very surprised!!!! I don't like to wear dress, and I very scared to tell my mom.I don't feel female. What's wrong with me ?
Can you help me???
How are you!
I wish you can help me
I'm female, but i like to dress male clothes.My Mother say ''Really, you don't like a girl.'' Sometimes i look for others girls, and i very surprised!!!! I don't like to wear dress, and I very scared to tell my mom.I don't feel female. What's wrong with me ?
Can you help me???
Anonymous asked: Kai, What is your natural hair color? Because sometimes I believe it's blond and then others i'm certain it's brown... Just wondering for the sake of ending this mental dispute
heartsjustbeatandbreak asked: What is your opinion on the Westboro Baptist Church and their actions? Obviously it will be a negative one but what are your thoughts about their organization and what they do?
luchadoriito asked: My family has been thinking of moving to Vancouver for awhile now. How's the rent/weather/atmosphere over there? Im transgendered myself and Im a bit nervous going to a new area, but Canada sure does sound interesting.
(BTW: congrats on your transition so far you look great bro!)
(BTW: congrats on your transition so far you look great bro!)
princeofthewildthings asked: Hey Twin,
I will try to keep this short, I know you have a lot of questions come in daily.
I identify as male and am currently stuck with my biological female body. I have wanted to have a male body ever since I can remember. Being referred to in female pronouns has never clicked with me. It always felt foreign, as does my chest. I know you referred to the phantom feeling...
I will try to keep this short, I know you have a lot of questions come in daily.
I identify as male and am currently stuck with my biological female body. I have wanted to have a male body ever since I can remember. Being referred to in female pronouns has never clicked with me. It always felt foreign, as does my chest. I know you referred to the phantom feeling...
Anonymous asked: Sometimes, I feel like i should be a guy....theres really no explaining it. Just, somedays, I want to buy a binder and dress as a boy, and the thought makes me so happy. Other days I feel like a girl, as in i would regret ever losing my ability to have kids.
Is there a name for this?
Is there a name for this?
Anonymous asked: Hi Kai/Lucas
First off; I'd like to say whatever everyone else has said & that's you're a huge inspiration.
Second: I know you've probably answered this before but
I'm a girl, and I've been bisexual as long as i can remember
& my family is super homophobic, I want to be able to tell them because I feel bad...
First off; I'd like to say whatever everyone else has said & that's you're a huge inspiration.
Second: I know you've probably answered this before but
I'm a girl, and I've been bisexual as long as i can remember
& my family is super homophobic, I want to be able to tell them because I feel bad...
Anonymous asked: Some people believe that self gender recognition is determined by the balance of hormones in an individual's body. If it had been possible for you/science to deliver hormones that would have made you more comfortable and accepting as a girl would you have considered it before you considered taking T?
I guess it would be like an anti-depressant but for your gender identity. Whereas T...
I guess it would be like an anti-depressant but for your gender identity. Whereas T...
faxen-deactivated20120705 asked: Hello handsome :)
Just wondering, are you planning on getting the double incision method or keyhole method for your chest surgery?
Just wondering, are you planning on getting the double incision method or keyhole method for your chest surgery?
Anonymous asked: I know this'll seem like a very odd question.. most probably because it is! xD
Anywho, was it strange when you stopped having your monthly period due to T? I mean, I've been having mine for about 4 years now and if it was suddenly to vanish, I don't know.. I'd just seem in-complete somewhat! :P
Anywho, was it strange when you stopped having your monthly period due to T? I mean, I've been having mine for about 4 years now and if it was suddenly to vanish, I don't know.. I'd just seem in-complete somewhat! :P
Anonymous asked: Hi :)
My question is this,
Do you answer all the questions you recieve on Tumblr?
I have a friend who wants to ask you something but shes worried you wont reply ^.^"
My question is this,
Do you answer all the questions you recieve on Tumblr?
I have a friend who wants to ask you something but shes worried you wont reply ^.^"
Anonymous asked: I had suspected that my best friend(who's a girl) was interested in other girls. Nothing major jumped out at me that she felt this way, just little things that I noticed. A few times I had gently brought up the subject to her and she would get really nervous and switch the topic. I could tell that this was troubling her and that she needed someone to confide in. Her parent's kept nagging...
Anonymous asked: Kai,
Ok so I am a girl and I am straight but sometimes I find myself looking at other girls thinking they are pretty and occasionally my gaze goes to either their butts or boobs...sorry there is no simple way to put this...yet I am not attracted to them in any way and I am to boys is this just normal?
I know you don't like the whole concept of normal but I mean...
Ok so I am a girl and I am straight but sometimes I find myself looking at other girls thinking they are pretty and occasionally my gaze goes to either their butts or boobs...sorry there is no simple way to put this...yet I am not attracted to them in any way and I am to boys is this just normal?
I know you don't like the whole concept of normal but I mean...
zemexx asked: Hey Lucas. I saw you at Aki Con this weekend (you looked and sounded really good, by the way!), but I was too chicken actually go up and talk to you. So I'd like to write out what I wished I could have said in person.
You are an inspiration. Not only to myself, but to many other people who are going through similar situations in their lives. When I watch your videos I can see...
You are an inspiration. Not only to myself, but to many other people who are going through similar situations in their lives. When I watch your videos I can see...
rtistikemz asked: Hey Kai/Lucas,
Well, I've been trying to get in touch with you for a while. I just recently came out to my mom as being bisexual...she wasn't supportive, or happy for that matter. I mean, I didn't expect her to be, but she has gone OVERBOARD. She won't let me talk to any of my friends; I JUST got my computer and phone back ((she says they're where I get my...
Well, I've been trying to get in touch with you for a while. I just recently came out to my mom as being bisexual...she wasn't supportive, or happy for that matter. I mean, I didn't expect her to be, but she has gone OVERBOARD. She won't let me talk to any of my friends; I JUST got my computer and phone back ((she says they're where I get my...